I've
been friends with Lindsey for about 16 years, over half my life. If you’re
doing the math, let me spare you, I just turned thirty this past March (and no
it wasn’t as traumatic as I was expecting). We were friends for about 11 years
before she became my stylist. Therefore, that relationship was always more
important than our professional one. I was definitely at the advantage of
having my friend turned stylist (versus stylist turned friend) because I knew
if I came to her with some crazy hair idea that was unrealistic she would
quickly and rightfully put me in my place. However most people don’t have that
relationship with the person cutting their hair.
I
recently came to her and said, “Hey…I’m starting this blog thingy. And I had a
thought in the middle of the night, which along with my never ending heartburn, kept me up. What if I featured YOU on my blog? This would give you as
a stylist a voice to share what other stylist are thinking." I asked her to just
be honest and jot down some thoughts.
So, here’s
what your stylist wants you to know (featuring event hair):
Do: Have a consultation first!
Consultations are quick, free, and set a good foundation for the service. This
is especially important with events such as weddings and prom, both of which
are right around the corner. Also, wearing a top that doesn't have to be pulled
over your head is key. Why, you say? Well…you gotta factor logistics. Pulling
your top over your hair, will likely just ruin it.
Pinterest. Yes Pinterest is the
online dream board for everything you ever imagined in life, including hair.
Many of the hairstyles we see come in are from Pinterest, and while it's great
to fantasize about styles, you have to be realistic in life. (Guilty of this
myself!!) You may not have the hair, hair pieces, 6 person celebrity stylist
team, 4-6 hours necessary, or want the price tag that comes with it. (Darnit!)
Instead, use the pictures for inspiration and tell your stylist what draws you to
the style, so it can be adapted to fit your unique head of hair.
Next day hair is much easier to
deal with than freshly washed. We don't care if you were at the casino
yesterday and smell like smoke, we have products to use on your hair to refresh
the scent, and the result will be much better. Clean hair can be too slippery,
and hard to work with. Also, do NOT come with wet or damp hair!
Do: Be on time for your
appointment. Being late pushes the appointments behind you back. It places your
stylist in the unfortunate position of having to deal with cranky guests the
rest of the day, and makes them look unprofessional. Also don't come extremely
early either. It's very distracting to your stylist when they are trying to
finish up a service and they are being interrupted with requests and questions.
If you do choose to come early, please don't get annoyed because you have to
actually wait the 45-30-20-10 minutes until your appointment start time. Make
sure that during your consultation/booking, you ask how much time you need for
your style. Plan for travel time. Your stylist wants to give you a great style!
Being rushed for time only ends in not so great results.
Some things to consider:
Being on the phone, either you're
looking down and throwing off the balance of your 'do, or your hand and head
are moving while hot tools are being used, both bad (guilty!). Your friend/mother/etc. isn't a hairstylist.
And if they are, there is a reason you didn't choose them to do your hair. Yes
it's fun to bring a friend, but understand your stylist is a professional, and
while it's good to ask their opinion, too many chefs spoil the soup. (Also totally applies to make-up artist!)
Lastly, we LOVE what we do. We enjoy
it, and we want you to enjoy it too. If your stylist isn't comfortable, or
doesn't recommend something for your hair, it's not because we hate you and
don't want you to be happy!! Communication is key! Pick a stylist who will
speak with you and ask questions, and make sure you ask questions too!
-Lindsey
I’m totally guilty of some of these
faux pas myself, as you see in the notes I added. But it’s good to be aware and
to have good communication with your stylist. Thanks Lindsey for sharing with us
some tidbits from a stylist point of view.
Lindsey
is currently a stylist at Harbor Hair Design in Kingston, WA. You can book an appointment with her at 360.297.3499.
Take advantage of her current promotion, which is 20% off cut and color for
first time clients. This discount applies with any hair care service she suggest
for you. Who doesn't love a discount on quality service? Let her know I sent
you over, and tag me in a photo if you do. I love introducing friends to
Lindsey and seeing what they come up with together.
What are your thoughts? Guilty of any of these?
XOXO,
Jessica Lynn
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